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Thursday, May 23, 2013

Summer Session 2013 - Adult Ed

"Who Will Be For Me?"
Jew and Other in Selected Jewish Short Stories
with Rabbi David Segal

Wednesdays 2:00-4:00 pm
July 3-August 14, 2013
Aspen Chapel Gallery

Course Summary

Over seven weeks this summer, we will read __ Jewish short stories by contemporary and classic authors: e.g. Papernick, Ozick, Roth, Babel, Singer, Auslander, Kafka, Keret, Vapnyar, Leegant, Nadelson. Nathan Englander's recent collection What We Talk About When We Talk About Anne Frank will be our primary reading, coupled with additional selections.

Registration Info

Suggested donation of $60/person includes all reading materials. An additional $25 sponsors refreshments for a week.
A link for online registration will be available soon. To register, please contact Faith or Lisa at the AJC office at 970-925-8245, or office@aspenjewish.org. If you are interested in enrolling long-distance via web-conferencing, the option is available; please contact Rabbi David at rabbi@aspenjewish.org or 970-925-8245 x.1.
*Please register by June 14 so enough materials are ordered . Readings will be available for pick-up at the AJC Chapel office (downstairs) starting June 17.

Syllabus (subject to change)
  1. July 3: To Hide or Not to Hide?
    Nathan Englander, What We Talk About When We Talk About Anne Frank
    Lara Vapnyar, There Are Jews in My House
  2. July 10: Anti-Semitism for Kids
    Nathan Englander, How We Avenged the Blums
    Etgar Keret, Siren
    Shalom Auslander, Holocaust Tips for Kids
  3. July 17: Jewish Power, Jewish Justice?
    Nathan Englander, Free Fruit for Young Widows
    Etgar Keret, Plague of the Firstborn
  4. July 24: How the Old and Young Suffer
    Nathan Englander, Camp Sundown
    Cynthia Ozick, The Shawl
  5. July 31: Otherness Embodied
    Shalom Auslander, Metamorphosis
    Franz Kafka, Report to an Academy
  6. August 7: Music and Memory
    Scott Nadelson, The Cantor's Daughter
    Franz Kafka, Josephine the Singer
  7. August 14: Convert Me?
    Philip Roth, Eli the Fanatic
    Jonathan Papernick, The Art of Correcting


Helpful links:
  • AJC Calendar
  • Summer Session online registration form (TBA)


Monday, May 20, 2013

Baccalaureate Speech - Aspen High School Class of 2013



Aspen High School Baccalaureate Service
Rabbi David Segal
Aspen Chapel • May 20, 2013

Congratulations to the Aspen High School Class of 2013, and to your parents, faculty, and friends. I’m honored to address you tonight.
Once upon a time, a father went to pick up his daughter from school and happened to overhear her talking to a friend.
     She said, “I'm really worried. Both my parents work full-time jobs to give me a really nice home, good food, and everything I could ever need. Then when they get home, they spend even more time cleaning the house, cooking, and taking care of me. I'm worried sick!”
     Her friend said, “What have you got to worry about? It sounds like you've got it made, with parents like that!”
     The daughter shook her head and said, “Sure, but what if they try to escape?”
I’m guessing there are a lot of mixed emotions in this room -- for you, the graduates, and for those who love you. Some of you probably can’t wait to get out on your own, craving your first taste of real independence. Some of you might be anxious about leaving the comfort of the known for the question mark that lies ahead. Most of you feel both, the push and pull of every life passage. Dr. Jonas Salk once said that good parents give their children roots and wings. Spreading your wings and testing their flight changes forever your link to your roots.

In the Jewish tradition, we’ve just celebrated the holiday of Shavuot. It marks the giving of the 10 Commandments by God to Moses on Mt. Sinai. This revelation of rules was the culmination of the Israelites’ redemption from Egyptian slavery, capping their hard-won independence with the responsibility that freedom demands. It was, in a sense, the Israelites’ graduation day. Naturally, many synagogues have come to connect Shavuot to high school graduation, with its parallel theme of negotiating independence and responsibility, which you will all experience when you leave home.

Now, I’m not suggesting that high school is like Egyptian oppression, or that your teachers are like taskmasters, or that it took an act of God to get you to graduation... although some of you might feel that way. But there is a mysterious episode in the Bible’s account of that miraculous day on a mountain that speaks to the mixed emotions you may be feeling at this threshold moment in your lives.

Toward the end of the Book of Exodus, Moses stands ready to climb the mountain -- again -- with a second set of tablets, on which God will write the 10 Commandments. (Moses broke the first set, you may recall, when he came down the mountain to find the Israelites partying a little too hard around a golden keg--er--calf...like a frat party gone horribly, sacrilegiously, wrong.) Moses worries about how he’s going to lead the people to the Promised Land, so he asks God for help: Lead us, show us favor, lighten my burden.

And then, Moses asks one thing more: “Please, show me Your Presence!” (Exodus 33:18). God agrees, sort of, for no human can see God and live. So God suggests an alternative: He’ll shield Moses with His hand in the cleft of a rock while He passes by, and then Moses can look at His back. It’s what God says during this “drive-by viewing” that speaks to us tonight:
...a God compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, with great mercy and faithfulness, extending mercy to the thousandth generation, forgiving sin... -- yet not dismissing all punishment, but visiting the sin of the parents upon children and children’s children, upon the third and fourth generation. (Exodus 34:6-7)
Here’s a quandary for a college theology class: how can God show mercy to a thousand generations, but also punish children for their parents' and grandparents’ mistakes? How to resolve this contradiction?

Well, one answer, which comes from the Bible itself, is simple: change it! That’s what the prophet Ezekiel does, centuries later:
The word of the LORD came to me: What do you mean by quoting this proverb..., “Parents eat sour grapes and their children’s teeth are blunted”? As I live — declares the Lord GOD — this proverb shall no longer be current among you... A child shall not share the burden of a parent’s guilt, nor shall a parent share the burden of a child’s guilt; the righteousness of the righteous shall be accounted to him alone, and the wickedness of the wicked shall be accounted to him alone. (Ezekiel 18:1-3, 20)
In other words, “I changed my mind.” In Exodus, God said that children will suffer the consequences of their parents’ actions. According to Ezekiel, all will be judged only according to their own choices.

Years ago I was teaching these texts to a group of young adults, asking them how to resolve the tension between Exodus and Ezekiel on parents and children. One student said it best: That tension, that paradox, is just the way the world is. Although we uphold a belief in our responsibility for our own actions, it’s simply true that we bear the consequences of our parents’ and grandparents’ choices, for better and for worse.

I suspect that you have all internalized a certain narrative, that through your hard work and perseverance you made it to this day. And now you’re about to step into real independence for the first time, where the world will challenge you to continue to achieve and succeed through your own efforts. In this story, self-sufficiency is the endgame. It would make Ezekiel proud: you, out in the world, forging your own path, accountable only for yourself.

But what God told Moses, about the chain of responsibility from generation to generation, also holds true. I experience this truth daily as the father of a toddler. His mother and I make choices for him continuously, as all parents do -- what he eats, where he goes to daycare and how often, what books he reads, how he gets disciplined. These choices, completely out of his control and unrelated to his merit, nonetheless will have a profound impact on how his life unfolds. And the world of choices available to me has been influenced and limited by my parents’ choices, and their parents’ choices -- to immigrate to this country before WWII, to settle in a particular city, to educate me at good schools, to support my decision to attend seminary...

There are forces in our society today, undergirded by political interests, who insist that either the Exodus or Ezekiel version of events is exclusively true. One of these voices says that you are a radically social being, having inherited all you have from those who came before, and owing all you achieve to those around you and those who come after you. You are dependent, you are vulnerable, and you accomplish nothing on your own. 

The other says that you are an atomized individual, an island of responsibility unto yourself, with the potential to be whatever you want to be, limited only by your imagination and drive. You are independent, you are on your own, and godspeed. 

The former, taken to its extreme, leads to guilt and self-doubt. It numbs the will to achieve and causes emotional paralysis and the neglect of our basic responsibilities.

The latter view leads to arrogance and smug complacency. Symptoms may also include greed and materialism. As Stephen Colbert, a satirical mouthpiece for this view, puts it, “I got mine, Jack!” 

I want to take a moment now to exercise my prerogative as your baccalaureate speaker, and offer my requisite piece of unsolicited advice: When you hear these two extreme voices, tune them out. They are toxic. 

We are neither islands nor cogs in a wheel. We are interdependent. A balanced and fulfilling life learns from the tension between the Exodus and Ezekiel stories and walks a middle path. This path leads not to arrogance or guilt but instead to the essential virtues of reverence, humility, and gratitude. It leads to a sense of responsibility, both for the universe of choices we’ve inherited, and for the effects of our choices on others.

Today, graduates, you deserve to feel proud. You worked hard and your efforts have paid off, but there’s no excuse for puffed up self-importance. My prayer for all of you, at this milestone and every day, is that you will carry yourselves as if you stand on the shoulders of giants. Because of those who laid the foundation, invested in you, believed in you -- you can see farther, dream bigger, achieve more. While you’re enjoying the view from the heights you’ve achieved, don’t forget to give thanks for the shoulders you stand on. And then one day, God willing, someone will stand on yours.

Thank you, and congratulations again.


Monday, April 1, 2013

AJC Purim on YouTube

Thanks to GrassrootsTV, our 2013 Purim spiel is now on YouTube. Enjoy!

SIGNED, SEALED, MEGILLAH: IT'S PURIM!

Monday, March 25, 2013

New Pope, Renewed Hope

Rabbi David Segal
Aspen Jewish Congregation
March 22, 2013 • Parshat Tzav

I had every intention of speaking tonight about President Obama's speech and tour in Israel this week. But the more I read, the more I realized I needed to read to be able to comment thoroughly and responsibly about it. So stay tuned for that topic another time... (In the meantime, I do highly recommend reading the speech in full.)

So I will share a few thoughts instead about another historic speech, given last Tuesday, as a new pope was inaugurated. This pope represents a number of firsts, including of course the first non-European pope in about 13 centuries. That in itself speaks to a new era for the Catholic Church

But this pope represents another 1st, and not just the first Francis (named, by the way, after St. Francis of Assisi, who was known for his care for the weak, the defenseless, the less fortunate of the world).

The other major milestone: Francis is the first Jesuit Pope. Why is this interesting? And is it, as we obsessively ask, good for the Jews? Answering those questions requires some background.

In the 16th century, Ignatius of Loyola, a Spanish Knight, founded the Society of Jesus, whose members were known as Jesuits. They were, in the main, more liberal toward Jews than the mainstream of the Catholic establishment. They even got themselves into trouble with the Church because of their openness.

After the Spanish expulsion in 1492, there remained New Christians -- Jews who converted to Christianity in order to remain in Spain. But soon suspicion grew that many of them were engaged in “Judaizing,” being Jews in secret and spreading their Judaism. Limpieza de sangre became the new standard of acceptance -- "purity of blood." Conversion was no longer good enough. Jewish blood -- Jewish ancestry -- was enough to condemn you. (This represents a haunting precursor to the Nazis’ genocidal policies, four centuries later.)

But as the Church moved in this racist direction, the Jesuits resisted, for a time. Only in 1593,  years after other Catholic groups had banned so-called “New Christians,” only then did the Jesuits. 

Part of their ban was their own fear of persecution: Apparently, the Jesuits, since they had welcomed Jewish-born converts, had many members of Jewish descent, including some high-ranking. This led King Phillip II of Spain to refer to the Jesuits as “a synagogue of Hebrews.” At any rate, despite early resistance, the Jesuits did ban Jewish blood from their membership, and in 1608 defined that as within 5 generations. This ban was officially lifted in -- brace yourself -- 1946! But one scholar points out that it probably wasn't enforced for some time before that.

Fast forward to 1965, and a landmark decree by the Catholic Church, called Nostra Aetate. It defined a new relationship with Jews, people of an everlasting covenant with God. And it rejected anti-Semitism and the old theology of Jews' bearing the guilt for the death of Jesus. It was a German Jesuit, Augustin Bea, who played a crucial role in advancing Nostra Aetate.

And today, we can say with confidence, that Jesuits are at the forefront of Jewish-Catholic dialogue. There is so much cooperation that, as one scholar notes, an internet search shows, among contemporary anti-Catholic voices, there is disproportionate focus on Jesuits; they are sometimes even accused of being controlled by Jews!

Look also at Jesuit universities, where Jewish Studies are an important component. Many Chairs of Jewish or Holocaust Studies at Jesuit or otherwise Catholic colleges are funded by Jews. And there is a certain similarity in the ethos of Jesuits and Jews: ours is a faith shorn up by serious scholarship and study. We embrace critical thinking and social justice in our religious lives.

Pope Francis I seems to embody this best of Jesuit attitudes toward Jews. His only published book, a dialogue of faiths, was co-authored with an Argentine rabbi. As Cardinal of Buenos Aires, he responded firmly in 1994 when terrorists bombed the city’s JCC, killing 85 people. He worked publicly  to combat terrorism throughout his career. He has also stated that the Vatican’s WWII and Holocaust archives should be made public, and has been critical of the Church’s role with Nazi Germany.

Jewish groups throughout the world are hailing this new pope with optimism that he will continue the advances of Pope John Paul II of deepening ties with world Jewry and with Israel.

And the new pope, in his inaugural speech, did not disappoint. In the first moments, as he officially recognized visiting guests, he said:
I offer a warm greeting to my brother cardinals and bishops, the priests, deacons, men and women religious, and all the lay faithful. I thank the representatives of the other Churches and ecclesial Communities, as well as the representatives of the Jewish community and the other religious communities, for their presence.
Not only had he invited this Jewish delegation, but he met with them the next day. And in accord with recent custom, after his election he offered an official greeting to the Chief Rabbi of Rome, Riccardo di Segni.

For another time, I’ll leave the conversation about how much influence the Catholic Church, and therefore the Pope, even has today. Mired in scandals and misconduct, the Church is losing ground, at least in the USA. Not to mention as part of the larger trend away from organized religion, across the board. But in the meantime, I give thanks for the optimism of this moment. That perhaps this new leadership may bring the Church to a place of being a more powerful force for good in the world. 

I’ll close with Pope Francis I’s own words from his inaugural mass:
Saint Paul speaks of Abraham, who, “hoping against hope, believed” (Rom 4:18). Hoping against hope! Today too, amid so much darkness, we need to see the light of hope and to be men and women who bring hope to others. To protect creation, to protect every man and every woman, to look upon them with tenderness and love, is to open up a horizon of hope; it is to let a shaft of light break through the heavy clouds; it is to bring the warmth of hope! 
Sounds like the Jewish mission in the world, too.

Shabbat shalom, and Chag Pesach Sameach



P.S. There are still other questions to explore regarding Pope Francis I's background, in particular during Argentina's "Dirty War" (See, for example, this article), as well as his attitudes toward women and homosexuality.


Friday, March 15, 2013

Locusts: to eat or not to eat?


Jessica Slosberg, Director of Education
Aspen Jewish Congregation
March 15, 2013 • Parshat Vayikra


We are now in the book of Vayikra or Leviticus, which consists of about three months of rules. There are rules about pretty much anything and everything you can imagine. Sometimes when I have a question I like to go through Vayikra and see if it is addressed directly or indirectly (it is a Hebrew school teacher thing). There are rules for sacrificing, building, clothing, slaves; the list goes on. And, of course, there are rules about food. What we can eat – what we can’t eat – how we can eat what - who can eat what when.  Educators, rabbis and parents go to great lengths to make this book interesting, which is no small task– there is even an iPhone app (see me later for details). 

Now as an educator, I am always gleeful when there is a real-life application (beyond the iPad) and this year we have one. As we approach Pesach there is incredibly large swarm of locusts in Egypt and moving to Israel. Now the locust swarm happens every year; but this is one of the biggest and being so near Passover is chuckle worthy in itself. However, there is a ferocious debate in Israel and that is: Are they the kosher kind of locust? Are they kosher for everyone? Who can serve them? And, of course, who is the correct person to say they whether they are kosher or not.

We are going to skip ahead a few chapters. In Vayikra 11:22-23 it says: “These you are allowed to eat: any kind of locust, and any kind of bald locust, any kind of cricket, and any kind of grasshopper. But all [other] winged swarming things, which have four feet, are a detestable thing unto you [and should not be eaten.”

The problem is, by the time the Talmud was codified most communities had lost the mesorah, the knowledge and tradition of eating locusts – as in which are kosher and which aren’t – except in Northern Africa and Yemen. These communities have continued to eat locusts all the way through. Now one rabbi already has said these locusts should be considered not kosher by all Israelis. A different rabbi said that he needs to examine them first before he can make a determination; he works for Institute for the Study of Agricultural Torah Commandments in Israel.

A similar locust event happened in 2005, and rabbis determined that they were the kosher kind of locust. It was even determined that Ashkenazi Jews, who traditionally side on the most stringent interpretations of the law, could eat them if they were served by a Jew from North Africa and Yemen.
This got me thinking about the value of experience. It also seems that in this day and age we all want to be experts – on everything. Having so much information at our fingertips makes it easy to forget that we are not actually experts on everything. Sometimes we need to be willing to defer to the real expert – the one with experience. Not only does this not make us weak it but in fact we become stronger and it shows that we are willing to grow. As Albert Einstein said, “A person who never made a mistake never tried anything new.”  I know this is something that I struggle with, wanting to be THE expert – sometimes I am and sometimes I am not. But every time I know I don’t have to be the expert and can ask for help I consider that a victory. It is not always easy but I am making baby steps.

Hopefully we all can recognize in our lives when we are the experts and when we should just eat the locusts. 

Friday, March 8, 2013

Searching for truth(s)

Rabbi David Segal
Aspen Jewish Congregation
08 March 2013 • Parshat Vayakhel-Pekudei

When the cloud lifted from the Tabernacle, the Israelites would set out, on their various journeys; but if the cloud did not lift, they would not set out until such time as it did lift. For over the Tabernacle a cloud of the Lord rested by day, and fire would appear in it by night, in the view of all the house of Israel throughout their journeys. 
(Exodus 40:36-38)

This scene from our week's parshah describes one of many miracles God wrought for the Israelites, along with the redemption itself, the plagues, and the parting of the sea -- which we’re all diligently preparing to retell in a few weeks at our Pesach seders.

As we think again about the Exodus, the Spring 2013 issue of Reform Judaism magazine raises a provocative question about it, among other issues (which are all worth reading):
The author of this article is Rabbi Dr. David Sperling, professor of Bible at Hebrew Union College-New York, and my teacher. In our 2nd-year bible class, when he told us that the Exodus didn’t really happen, he made several of my classmates cry. I hope that isn’t the outcome of my d’var torah tonight... and I give you full permission to reject everything I say here (not that that differs from any other week, but I'm making it explicit this week!).

Let me break down Sperling's argument for you: There’s no archaeological record of millions of Israelites ever being slaves in Egypt, or marching through the desert to Canaan. Period. It probably didn’t happen, at least not as described in the Torah.

I have a feeling that’s not terribly shocking for most of us, who probably don’t take the Bible as literal history, but instead as a human document -- divinely inspired, though couched in the context of its authors’ times and places.

So why is that story there? Why would a people keep telling a myth about ourselves as former slaves, and as immigrants and foreigners in our land?

Before I answer that, let’s get help from another voice.

Jonathan Zimmerman wrote in this week’s Tablet Magazine about being a Jewish atheist, and searching for a synagogue suitable for him intellectually. (Based on unofficial polling a few weeks ago, during my sermon on what Americans believe, I know that some significant number of Jewish atheists call this synagogue their spiritual home. And this is good...)

Zimmerman talks about growing up very involved in Conservative Judaism, from Hebrew school, to services and holidays, to Camp Ramah. And he even went on to Brandeis. He reflects that, during his childhood, no one ever imposed on him a singular concept or image of God, and he was able to jump in his imagination between various possibilities (including the old man in the cloud, the booming voice in the Ten Commandments, and, amusingly, Ariel’s father Triton in The Little Mermaid!).



When he grew to be a teenager, he began to think of God as a “fictitious character full of symbolic importance.” He had begun to study literature and placed God among the great characters of Western culture. He always felt, I think rightly, that Judaism is “a remarkably easy religion to engage with skeptically.”

But then something happened, especially when he found himself among many non-Jews, who have a different relationship to God belief, God language, and doubt. He realized he needed to resolve this unresolved issue from childhood. So he started studying it more, reading the so-called “new atheists" (e.g. Hitchens and Dawkins), and thereby fully realized his atheism. He never rejected Judaism, though, as he still found it valuable. But he searched in vain for a Jewish institution that felt like an intellectual home.

Finally, when he moved to NYC, he decided to explore the humanistic Judaism that he had read about, and so he attended a service at the City Congregation for Jewish Humanism, which meets at the Lower East Side Y. 

But something unexpected happened. When they got to the Shema, this is what the prayer book and the congregation sang (to the usual melody): Shema Yisrael, echad ameinu, adam echad. “Hear O Israel, Our People is One, Humanity is One.” And here is Zimmerman describing his reaction: “Hearing God replaced by 'humanity' in this version of the Shema ... felt something akin to hearing Christian heavy-metal: The words and the music were so incongruous, it was impossible not to giggle.”

He went on to reflect that, here, finally, he had found the one prayer book, maybe in the world, where he could agree with every word. And yet, "the prayers rang false." He concluded,
Who really wants to pray from a book that has nothing disagreeable in it? Who wants to follow only rituals that make intellectual sense? It seemed so shortsighted to me. If I hadn’t been given a God to wrestle with growing up, I wouldn’t be half the cynical, pestering, relentlessly questioning nudnik I am today. In other words, I wouldn’t be Jewish. [!]
And that brings us back to Dr. Sperling and his tearing down of the traditional belief in the Exodus as described in the Torah and Haggadah. Just because it’s not literally or historically true doesn’t mean it doesn’t contain truth.

Sperling teaches that the Exodus story is an allegory for what the Israelites were facing in their political and social reality. It was “invented deliberately to obscure the fact that the Israelites were native to Canaan.” Since in fact they had many values and teachings in common with the neighboring tribes, they had to work hard to assert their distinctiveness. This, they hoped, would ensure solidarity among the people, and enhance their commitment to the Torah’s calls to be wary of the practices of their neighbors, the Canaanites, Egyptians, and others.

But why a slavery story, of all things? Why Egyptian bondage? Again, it's allegory: Egypt had an ancient empire that stretched past Israel into what we now know as Syria. The Egyptian overlords controlled much of the economy of those areas, often forcing the local populations to harvest their imperial fields rather than the inhabitants’ own land. So the Israelites had been subjected to forced labor at the hands of Egyptian taskmasters, just not in Egypt -- in their native land!

The story seems invented, again, to shore up the exclusive worship of God. After all, if God could free a people from slavery, with miracles such as that story, then surely He is worthy of exclusive, special worship -- instead of the various gods of neighboring tribes. 

After we tear down and reconstruct this narrative, we learn: distinctiveness and independence, along with loyalty to God, are elevated as supreme values.

This leads Rabbi David Wolpe to say that the myth, if you want to call it that, of the Exodus makes him feel enormous gratitude: for freedom, for security, for Jewish continuity. He writes, “Despite unimaginable opposition, the Jewish people have seen nation after nation buried under the debris of history while our nation lives. Truth should not frighten one whose faith is firm. And faith ought not to rest on splitting seas.”

Zimmerman reaches a related conclusion after his Jewish atheist searching:
I needed my experience with Humanistic Judaism to relearn what I intuitively understood from a young age: There is inherent value in saying words I do not mean, praying to a God I do not believe in, and kissing a Torah I do not believe was written by him. There is a poetic richness as a non-believer participating in this tradition, in being an “Israelite” named for a mythological story about wrestling with a fictional deity that birthed a very real people.
Although I am still unsure how, I know at least that I will continue to act out this fiction. And if that associates me with a God and superstitions I do not believe in, I accept that, because I know that within the fiction of Judaism lie more profound truths than could ever be attained outside of it.
And we reached a related conclusion yesterday in my adult ed class. We are studying Modern Jewish Thought, and this week's topic was Post-Holocaust Theology.

If the Enlightenment led us to reject the traditional God of Israel, it also taught us to put in His place -- on God’s throne -- humanity, instead. With reason as our guide, we were supposed to advance social and political progress for the good of all humankind, a real messianic age, at our fingertips, made by man for man.

But the Holocaust unseated us from that throne. After that horror, how could we ever put humanity on a pedestal again? Our collective faith, not in God, but in the human species, was shattered.

So we had given up traditional faith in God, and now we had lost classical faith in man. So the question is: what replaces them?

This is a question that can be answered adequately only with a lifetime of lived experience. But this much I know: the answer involves moments of holiness, glimpses of the transcendent, even amidst our deeply secular lives; it invites a sense of the miraculous, even against our rational brains; it demands a humble belief in our ability -- and indeed, responsibility -- to do some good, while understanding our limitations and leaving room for the existence of something greater than ourselves (call it God or something else, but don't let that debate distract from doing something).

Underneath it all, it involves a fundamental affirmation of the value of community and relationship, and that, though we may spend our whole lives searching, our lives have meaning and purpose; we matter to someone, not only here and now, but even when we’ve left this mystery for the next one.

SHABBAT SHALOM.

Friday, February 22, 2013

Redeeming Laughter

Rabbi David Segal
Aspen Jewish Congregation
22 February 2013 • Parashat Tetzaveh • almost Purim


Redeeming Laughter

When you look closely, Purim is a dark holiday. The Book of Esther is a violent and bloody story, at least in the end -- the part that we tend to gloss over in purim spiels...

Haman and his sons get impaled on stakes. And the solution to the decree to slaughter the Jews is not simply to cancel the decree; rather it is to allow the Jews, by royal edict, to assemble and fight back against their assailants. And fight back the Jews do: in Shushan alone they kill 500 men on the first day; and then in the King’s provinces, another 75,000 people. 75,000! A day of impending doom became a day of preemptive victory (not unlike, perhaps, the 6-day War in 1967).

However true the Book of Esther is, it’s clear the authors knew the Torah well. The Mordechai vs. Haman rivalry is an echo of two other confrontations in the Torah: Israel vs. Amalek (Exod 17 & Deut 25); and and King Saul vs. Agag (I Sam 15), an ancestor of Haman. Esther is yet another retelling of what seems to be a cyclical story. An enemy arises to destroy the Jews seemingly in each generation. Haman’s reason for Jew-hatred is as irrational as the others who have arisen through the centuries. We needn’t look very far back in history, or very many miles away, to see this ancient story cycling again.

And yet, on Purim, we take this dark story -- the murderous anti-Semitism and the Jews’ bloody (if necessary) defense -- and we turn it into a farce! We play dress-up and eat cookies and spin little toy noisemakers to blot out Haman’s name. We stage musical numbers to tell the story through dance and humor.

In that bizarre celebration there is great wisdom about the value of humor. I’d like to suggest tonight that humor is sacred and even redemptive in two important ways.

The first has to do with how we deal with our enemies. When Mel Brooks turned his 1968 movie The Producers into a recent Broadway hit, there was pushback from some Jewish voices. As you may know, it's a story about two down-and-out guys (Zero Mostel and Gene Wilder in the film; Nathan Lane and Matthew Broderick in the musical) who devise a scheme for quick money: they’ll oversell a guaranteed Broadway flop, which means they’ll keep the extra money when the show fails. After culling through stacks upon stacks of the worst scripts they can find, the hit the jackpot -- or so they think. They come across a little number by a German emigre (who happens to be a Nazi sympathizer) entitled: Springtime for Hitler. As I said, some Jews weren’t so receptive to this production, taking offense at the mixing of humor and the Holocaust.

In response, Mel Brooks said in a 2006 interview with Spiegel:
Of course it is impossible to take revenge for 6 million murdered Jews. But by using the medium of comedy, we can try to rob Hitler of his posthumous power and myths....
     We take away from him the holy seriousness that always surrounded him and protected him like a cordon....
     It is an inverted seizure of power. For many years Hitler was the most powerful man in the world and almost destroyed us. To posses this power and turn it against him -– it is simply alluring.
What goes for Hitler here goes for Jewish humor through the ages: humor is redemptive in that it can help us cope with persecution and horror, and it can cut our enemies down to size -- at least verbally.

Consider a few examples of this type of Jewish humor. First, from Russia about 130 years ago...
After the assassination of Tsar Alexander II of Russia, a government official in Ukraine menacingly addressed the local rabbi, "I suppose you know in full detail who was behind it."      "Oy," the rabbi replied, "I have no idea, but the government's conclusion will be the same as always: they will blame the Jews and the chimneysweeps."     "Why the chimneysweeps?" asked the befuddled official.     "Why the Jews?" responded the rabbi.
And another from Russia that needs some introduction, for this is a particularly dark joke, but it illustrates the theme of Jewish humor borne of deep pain, and I share it for that reason:
During the days of persecution and poverty of the Russian shtetls, one village had a rumor going around: a Christian girl was found murdered near their village. Fearing a pogrom, they gathered at the synagogue.     Suddenly, the rabbi came running up, and cried, "Great news, everyone! The murdered girl was Jewish!"
Next we turn to Nazi Germany:
Rabbi Altmann and his secretary were sitting in a coffeehouse in Berlin in 1935, as the Nazis were beginning their rise to power.  “Herr Altmann,” said his secretary, “I notice you're reading [the Nazi propaganda newspaper] Der Stürmer! I can't understand why. It's a Nazi libel sheet! Are you some kind of masochist, or, God forbid, a self-hating Jew?” “On the contrary, Frau Epstein,” replied the rabbi. “When I used to read theJewish papers, all I learned about were pogroms, riots in Palestine, and assimilation in America. But now that I read Der Stürmer, I see things differently: the Jews control all the banks, we dominate in the arts, and we're on the verge of taking over the entire world. It makes me feel so much better!”
And finally to the American South:

Down South during World War II, an army sergeant got a telephone call from a local woman. “We would love it,” she said, “if you could send five of your soldiers over from the base to our house for Thanksgiving dinner. We'd love to host them.”  “Certainly, ma'am,” replied the sergeant. “Oh, one thing... just make sure they aren't Jews, of course,” said the woman.  “Will do,” replied the sergeant.  So that Thanksgiving while the woman was baking and getting the table set, the doorbell rang. She opened her door and, to her surprise and horror, there were five Black soldiers standing on her doorstop.  “Oh, my!” she exclaimed. “I'm afraid there's been a terrible mistake!”  “No ma'am,” said one of the soldiers. “Sergeant Rosenberg never makes mistakes!” 
One caveat about this redemptive potential of humor, as powerful as it can be, is that it has limits. 

To that point, Woody Allen is an insightful commentator. In a scene in his film Manhattan, he’s at a fancy cocktail party with a number of upper crust men and women -- presumably Jewish -- and the following scene unfolds:

“Has anyone read that Nazis are marching in NJ?!? We should go down there, you know, get some guys together, get some bricks and baseball bats, and really...explain things to ‘em.”
     A tuxedoed man, drink in hand, responds: “There was this devastating satirical piece on that on the op-ed page of the Times. It is devastating.”
     Allen interrupts: “A satirical piece in the times is one thing, but bricks and baseball bats really gets right to the point.”
     Then a woman, dressed to the nines, jumps in: “Ah, but really biting satire is always better than physical force.”
     Allen again: “Come on, physical force is always better with Nazis. It’s hard to satirize a guy with...shiny boots.”


Sometimes, he seems to be warning, persecution demands a response; sometimes, unfortunately, the use of force is required. Jokes can help us cope with anti-Semitism, and they may help us diminish our enemies' psychological power over us, but we can’t always simply hide behind humorous words.

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We turn now to the second kind of redemptive humor -- making fun of ourselves. Here’s how Sigmund Freud explained it:
The occurrence of self-criticism as a determinant may explain how it is that a number of the most apt jokes...have grown upon the soil of Jewish popular life. They are stories created by Jews and directed against Jewish characteristics....     The Jewish jokes which originate from Jews...know their real faults as well as the connection between them and their good qualities, and the share which the subject has in the person found fault with...     Incidentally, I do not know whether there are many other instances of a people making fun to such a degree of its own character.
(Sigmund Freud, Jokes and their Relation to the Unsconscious)
I see a number of nodding heads... Yes, we Jews seem to have a talent or at least a habit of poking fun at ourselves. Consider these examples...

On the theme of Jews as cheap:
A Jewish man lies on his deathbed, surrounded by his children. "Ah," he says, "I can smell your mother's brisket — how I would love to taste it one last time before I die. Go downstairs and ask your mother to make a plate for me."
     So one of his sons hurries down to the kitchen, but he returns empty-handed.     "Sorry, dad,” he says. “Mom says it's for after the funeral."
On the theme of Jews as complainers: 
A Jewish man in St. Andrew’s Medical Center tells the doctor he wants to be transferred to Beth Israel hospital. After he’s transferred, the doctor at Beth Israel asks, "What was wrong at St. Andrew’s? Was it the food?"     "No, the food was fine. I couldn’t complain."     "Was it the room?"     "No, the room was comfortable. I couldn't complain."     "Was it the staff?"     "No, the staff was lovely. I couldn't complain."     "Then why did you want to be transferred here?"     "Here, I can complain!"
And even though I don't like Jewish mother jokes, I like this one...
Q. How many Jewish mothers does it take to change a light bulb? A. (Sigh) Don't bother, I'll sit in the dark.
Here's one about the Jewish denominations in America:
A man goes to an Orthodox, a Conservative, and a Reform rabbi to ask whether he should say a b'rachah over a lobster.  The Orthodox rabbi doesn't know what a "lobster" is. The Conservative rabbi doesn't know what to say - he gets all confused. The Reform rabbi says, "What's a b'rachah?"
And one about Israeli drivers:
A Rabbi dies and goes up to the gates of heaven. Before he's let in, the angel in charge has to consult with God for a long period of time if he deserves a place in heaven. As the Rabbi is waiting, an Israeli bus driver approaches the gates of heaven. Without a second thought, the angel who was consulting with God let the bus driver through.     The Rabbi points at the bus driver and yells, "Hey! How come he gets in so quickly? He's a simple bus driver, while I'm a Rabbi!"     The angel explains, "Dear Rabbi, you don't understand. When you would give your sermon during the prayer services, your whole congregation would fall asleep. When this bus driver drove towards Tel Aviv, all his passengers would be at the edge of their seats praying to God!"
The most extreme example of this type of humor happened a few years ago. In the last decade, there have been a number of incidents of violence or threats of violence in response to cartoons satirizing Mohammed and Muslims. And about six years ago, an Iranian newspaper sponsored a “Holocaust Cartoon competition” to reward the best Anti-Semitic and Holocaust-denying comics.

Two Israelis responded in a way that I felt exemplified the power of Jewish self-deprecating humor. They sponsored an Israeli Anti-Semitic Cartoon contest, saying:
We’ll show the world we can do the best, sharpest, most offensive Jew hating cartoons ever published! No Iranian will beat us on our home turf!
So yes, I think Freud was right. There’s something embedded in our culture, or maybe in the collective memory of our people, that gets expressed in this perennial self-mockery. I think there is great strength in this. Exposing our faults makes them easier to name and therefore easier to face.

But it's more than that. A friend of mine once dated an Iranian woman, who knew little of Judaism. She decided to go to shul to explore it, and what day does she choose -- but Purim! So there’s this Iranian woman standing in the back when they tell of the Jews killing 75,000 Persians -- well, you can imagine how she felt.

And therein lies the most profound role that humor can play: it can help us re-imagine, reinterpret, and reform those violent tendencies within our texts and within ourselves that we would rather not let speak for us or guide our action in the world.

All of this to say... You really don’t want to miss our Purim spiel tomorrow night. Come and laugh with us -- at ourselves and at our foes -- and celebrate this community with joy and gratitude. And let’s also remember that the two-part redemptive blessing of humor -- directed inward and directed outward -- has the power to renew us in our role as a light unto the nations, and bring us closer to redeeming the world.

HAPPY PURIM AND SHABBAT SHALOM.